Sunday, December 31, 2006

Salem...an unknown wonder


Some of the most beautiful places in the world are still unexplored. The words came true when I was forced (literally) to do my Sales Officer stint as part of my training program in a place called Salem. Salem is a district in the north of Tamil Nadu, a place where people do not speek any other language but Tamil and without which, I felt my life for the next one month will be a living hell...
It was not. What it actually was was a beautiful experience visiting some really lovely locales (not always with my camera since I WAS on an official work) and some good food (most of the times I even liked the rice meals most common for lunches).
What follows in the next few posts is an account of all that hapenned (and did not) in Salem, Krishnagiri, Vanyambadi, Thiruannamalayi and loads of other places where I went.
Hope the accounts are as intersting as the trip was.
Regards,
Nishant

Sunday, December 03, 2006

Yerkaud today....mast Salem

Seriously a great place....Yerkaud was coooooool!!!!!!!

will write in detail about it during more time... :-(

imagine not having time even for my beloved blog...but now...will come with pics!!!...from my very own Canon

Sunday, November 19, 2006

Numbers...Salem and more

One month in Chennai has given to me more education in FMCG S&D and a host of other things than I could have imagined in my wildest dreams. After all how can anyone find out on their own how pathetic they have been at so many things that they always thought was their forte? Take presentations for that matter....I make a beautiful presentation (according to my mundane standards) and with pride, show it to arnd 3 top-brasses of the company! A royal screw will be a much pleasurable experience compared to what I went through after that. Butchered, annihilated, swashbuckled......these are the words that come to my mind. 24 hours and around 14 hours in front of the computer later, I came up with something completely different. Now that same presentation is doing the rounds of almost everyone on the company's board!!! So one day to learn something so important which I had never realized I did not know for all these years and months as that flashy MBA!!!

Another thought went through my mind while waiting for a table at a very good restaurant (in terms of the mughlai cuisine that they serve). We always seem to feel that a person inside a prison will be spending a life as a number and not as a name. For some time during our lives, almost all of us do have that kind of life in our daily work.....in a restaurant, you are known as Table no 4, in a cinema hall u r seat no F42, in a flight u might be 12D......so what is the diff?

Next stop...Salem for my SO stint!!! Hope to keep upto the reputation that I have created here.

Nishant

Wednesday, October 25, 2006

In Chennai....!!!

Yep, I finally get to write afew more words into this unknown blog which no one but myself reads. Not that I have not thought about it, I guess the amount of times I thnk about writing something here far exceeds the amount of time I thnk of calling my best of frnds. Just that I dont get to sit at a computer so often here with all this sales stint that is going on. Right now I just hapenned to get stuck in a cyber cafe because of rains.....imagine....Chennai and rains!!!! I never thought that actually was a phonomenon that hapenned.

Anyways...here I am in Chennai, far away from any living thing that I know personally (though a lot of my known frnds claim to be in Chennai) enjoying my days and somehow finding enuf good places to eat (unlike claims made by another set of frnds who happen to have spent some time of thr lives inChennai). One thing I find here...all men are equal! Color, clothes...take whatever u want to take....they are all black and wear white dhotis (no derogatory meaning intented....everyone here IS black)...so black that they actually make me feel white (which of course i m not)!!!

So finding life in Chennai a helluva lot better than had been made to imagine but will really find a problem in case i have to spend longer here than i have to. nyways i have finished all Dan Brown's and Jeffrey Archer's that i could lay my hands on and eaten as much rice as could come into my hands at a time. Though the rajisthani thali in the rajisthani dhaba on the main Anna Nagar road (the one with Saravana Bhavan...Still dont remember what number the road is).....is great...Try the Rajwadi Thali (80 bucks) and i m sure anyone will like it.

Looks like the rain has stopped...

Ciao
Nishant

Wednesday, September 27, 2006

And me becoming a mama

AFter giving all that gyaan on how I will not be able to write another post in a long time....I write one within half an hour.

My 2 great frnds...Anuj and Soumya...who did find mention in at least one previous post are now going to be proud parents... (actually I am not supposed to be telling this since the two of them have full right to tell this...but I just could not keep this inside my stomach....sorry Anuj and Soumya Gupta)....and I have decided that instead of becoming a tau...i will be a mama...(it sounds younger...tau has a hint of old in it...this is just one of the reason)

and i m sending the link to Anuj and Soumya so that they can see me publishing the news and come and kill me... :D

Enjoy!!!
Nishant

And off I fly again....

I believe today is my last day in front of the computer in I3L. Tomorrow the SMG (Systems dept) will take it away. Possibly the best days of my life in this place were spent at the times when I was not in front of this machine. That is because I was most probably away from the office either in coffee day or in CLI3L or somewhere outside. Hence not many "fond" memories with this box of wires....but still a computer is a computer, specially when it comes with the glorious thing called the internet. I am sure that my next big personal purchase is going to be a laptop and then of course...an internet connection in whichever place I finally settle down.

Now that is a completely different matter that I have no clue where I will finally settle down. Or even when I will be able to write another post on this lovely wonderful blog of mine. Hope both the things become clear soon.

Bangalore has been good to me and even though I have hated the people here (not the frnds...but somehow the junta here has been able to really piss me off) and I have hated almost everything except the food and the weather....the place is good and I kind of started having a liking for it towards the end. Possibly because I knew that the ordeal was coming to an end. I dont know for how long I am going to stay here (joining Brit in Blore but then may shift at any time out of the place) so bidding adieu to it right now.

Take care ppl and be good...!!!

Nishant

Thursday, September 14, 2006

Phew....!!!! Finally....!!!!

Yeah, I know. Whoever will hear the news will definitely come to this blog to check out what I have put here regarding this.

So ladies and gentlemen....I have resigned. Or to put it more subtely, I have put in my papers. The decision seems to be a big one but believe me, after all the high hopes and high expectations that I had entertained while joining here and seen all of them (barring none) getting dashed one at a time, this decision was just waiting to happen. All that was required was a new place to go to and a new way to start off.

Lucky for me, here it is.

And....I have resigned. Or to put it more subtely, I have put in my papers.

Saturday, September 02, 2006

Taxi Driver's MBA lesson

Got this from a dear friend of mine...another awesome read

This is a true story from a Microsoft employee in China, very long but an interesting read. It reveals the power of statistics.

The Taxi Driver Taught Me An MBA Lesson

I needed to go from Xujiahui to the airport, so I hurriedly concluded a meeting and I was looking for a taxi in front of the Meiluo building. A taxi driver saw me and very professionally came in a straight line and stopped right in front of me. Thus followed the story that astonished me greatly as if I had attended a lively MBA course. In order to faithfully preserve the intent of the taxi driver, I have tried to reproduce his original words according to my memory.

"Where do you want to go? Good, the airport. At Xujiahui, I loved to get business in front of the Meiluo building. Over here, I only work two places: Meiluo building ( 美罗 ) and Junyao building (均瑶 ). Did you know? Before I picked you up, I circled around Meiluo building twice before I saw you! People who come out of office building are definitely not going to some place nearby ...."

"Oh? You have a method!" I agreed.

"A taxi driver must also have scientific methods," he said. I was surprised and I got curious: "What scientific methods?"

"I have to know statistics. I have made detailed calculations. Let me tell you. I operate the car 17 hours a day, and my hourly cost is 34.5 RMB ..."

"How did you arrive at that?" I asked

"You calculate. I have to pay 380 RMB to the company each day for the car. The gas is about 210 RMB. I work 17 hours per day. On an hourly basis, the fixed cost is the 22 RMB that I give to the taxi company and an average of 12.5 RMB per hour in gasoline expenses. Isn't that 34.5 RMB?" I was a bit surprised. I have taken taxis for ten years, but this is the first time that a taxi driver has calculated the costs this way. Previously, the taxi drivers all tell me that the cost per kilometer was 0.3 RMB in addition to the total company fee.

"Costs should not be calculated on a per-kilometer basis. It should be calculated on an hourly basis. You see, each meter has a 'review' function through which you can see the details of the day. I have done a data analysis. The averarge time gap between customers is seven minutes. If I started counting the costs when someone gets in, it is 10 RMB for about 10 minutes. That means each 10 RMB customer takes 17 minutes of time, which costs 9.8 RMB (=34.5 x 17 / 60). This is not making money! If we say that customers who want to go to Pudong, Hangzhou or Qingpu are like meals, then a 10 RMB customer is not even a bite of food. You can only say that this is just a sprinkle of MSG."

Great! This driver did not sound like a taxi driver. He seemed more like an accountant. "So what you do then?" I was even more interested and I continued my questioning. It looked like I was going to learn something new on the way to the airport.

"You must not let the customer lead you all over the place. You decide what you want to do based upon the location, time and customer." I was very surprised, but this sounded significant. "Someone said that the taxi driving is a profession that depends on luck. I don't think so. You have to stand in the position of the customer and consider things from the customer's perspective." This sounded very professional, and very much like many business management teachers who say "put yourself in others' shoes."

"Let me give you an example. You are at the entrance to a hospital. There is someone holding some medicine and there is someone else holding a wash basin. Which person will you pick up?" I thought about it and I said that I didn't know.

"You take the one with the wash basin. If you have a minor complaint that you want to be examined and to get some medicine, you don't usually go to a faraway hospital. Anyone who is carrying a wash basin has just been discharged from the hospital. When people enter the hospital, some of them die. Today, someone on the second floor dies. Tomorrow, someone on the third floor dies. Those who make it out of the hospital usually have a feeling of having been given a second life and they recognize the meaning of life again -- health is the most important thing. So on that day, that person told me, "Go ... go to Qingpu." He did not even blink. Would you say that he wanted to take a taxi to People's Plaza to transfer to the Qingpu line subway? Absolutely not!"

I began to admire him.

"Let me give you another example. That day at People's Plaza, three people were waving at me. One was a young woman who had just finished shopping and was holding some small bags. Another was a young couple who were out for a stroll. The third one was a man who wore a silk shirt and a down jacket and holding a notebook computer bag. I spent three seconds looking at each person and I stopped in front of the man without hesitation. When the man got in, he said: 'Yannan Elevated Highway. South North Elevated Highway ...' Before even finishing, he could not help but ask, 'Why did you stop in front of me without hesitating? There were two people in front. They wanted to get on as well. I was too embarrassed to fight with them.' I replied, 'It is around noon and just a dozen or so minutes before one o'clock. That young woman must have slipped out at noon to buy something and I guess that her company must be nearby. That couple are tourists because they are not holding anything and they are not going to travel far. You are going out on business. You are holding a notebook computer bag, so I can tell that this is business. If you are going out at this time, I guess that it would not be too close.' The man said, 'You are right. I'm going to Baoshan.'"

"Are those people wearing pajamas in front of supermarkets or subway stations going to travel far? Are they going to the airport? The airport is not going to let them enter."

That makes sense! I was liking this more and more.

"Many drivers complain that business is tough and the price of gas has gone up. They are trying to pin the cause down on other people. If you keep pinning the cause on other people, you will never get any better. You must look at yourself to see where the problem is." This sounds very familiar. It seems like "If you cannot change the world, then you should change yourself" or perhaps a pirated copy of Steven Corey's "Circles of Influence and Concern." "One time, on Nandan Road, someone flagged me down and wanted to go to Tianlin. Later on, someone else flagged me down on Nandan Road and he also wanted to go to Tianlin. So I asked, 'How come all you people who come out on Nandan Road want to go to Tianlin?' He said, 'There is a public bus depot at Nandan Road. We all take the public bus from Pudong to there, and then we take the taxi to Tianlin. So I understood. For example, you look at the road that we just passed. There are no offices, no hotels, nothing. Just a public bus station. Those people who flag down taxis there are mostly people who just got off the public bus, and they look for the shortest road for a taxi. People who flag down taxis here will usually ride not more than 15 RMB."

"Therefore, I say that the attitude determines everything!" I have heard dozens of company CEO's say that, but this was the first time that I heard a taxi driver say that.

"We need to use scientific methods and statistics to conduct business. Those people who wait at the subway exits every day for business will never make money. How are you going to provide for your wife and kids at 500 RMB a month? This is murder? This is slowly murdering your whole family. You must arm yourself with knowledge. You have to learn knowledge to become a smart person. A smart person learns knowledge in order to become a very smart person. A very smart person learns knowledge in order to become a genius."

"One time, a person wanted a taxi in order to get to the train station. I asked him how he wanted to go. He told me how to get there. I said that was slow. I said to get on the elevated highway and go this other way. He said that it was a longer way. I said, 'No problem. You have experience because you go that way frequently. It costs you 50 RMB. If you go my way, I will turn off the meter when it reaches 50 RMB. You can just pay me 50 RMB. Anything more is mine. If you go your way, it will take 50 minutes. If I go my way, it will take 25 minutes.' So in the end, we went my way. We traveled an additional four kilometers but 25 minutes quicker. I accepted only 50 RMB. The customer was very delighted for saving about 10 RMB. This extra four kilometers cost me just over 1 RMB in gas. So I have swapped 1 RMB for 25 extra minutes of my time. As I just said, my hourly cost is 34.5 RMB. It was quite worthwhile for me!"

"In a public taxi company, an ordinary driver takes three to four thousand RMB home per month. The good driver can get around five thousand. The top driver can get seven thousand RMB. Out of the 20,000 drivers, there are about two to three who can make more than 8,000 RMB a month. I am one of those two or three. Furthermore, it is very stable without too much fluctuation."

Great! By this point, I admired this taxi driver more and more.

"I often say that I am a happy driver. Some people say, 'That's because you earn a lot of money. Of course, you must be happy.' I tell them, 'You are wrong. This is because I have a happy and active mind, and that is why I make a lot of money.'"

What a wonderful way to put it!

"You have to appreciate the beauty that your work brings. Stuck in a traffic jam at People's Plaza, many drivers complain, 'Oh, there's a traffic jam again! What rotten luck!' You must not be like that. You should try to experience the beauty of the city. There are many pretty girls passing by. There are many tall modern buildings; although you cannot afford them, you can still enjoy them with an appreciative look. While driving to the airport, you can look at the greenery on both sides. In the winter, it is white. How beautiful! Look at the meter -- it is more than 100 RMB. That is even more beautiful! Each job has its own beauty. We need to learn how to experience that beauty in our work."

"Ten years ago, I was a general instructor at Johnson's. Eight years ago, I had been the department manager for three different departments. I quit because there was no point in making three or five thousand a month. I decided to become a taxi driver. I want to be a happy driver. Ha ha ha ..."

When we arrived at the airport, I gave him my business card and said, "Are you interested in coming this Friday to my office and explain to the Microsoft workers about how you operate your taxi? You can treat it as if your meter is running at 60 kilometers per hour. I will pay you for the time that you talk to us. Give me a call."

Then I began to write down his lively MBA lecture on the airplane.

Friday, September 01, 2006

Mail from Mrs.Sudha Murthy

I personally find this article very inspiring. Small sentences can give so much help to how life should be handled. Please read it.


It was probably the April of 1974. Bangalore was getting warm and gulmohars were blooming at the IISc campus. I was the only girl in my postgraduate department and was staying at the ladies' hostel. Other girls were pursuing research in different departments of Science.

I was looking forward to going abroad to complete a doctorate in computer science. I had been offered scholarships from Universities in the US. I had not thought of taking up a job in India.

One day, while on the way to my hostel from our lecture-hall complex, I saw an advertisement on the notice board. It was a standard job-requirement notice from the famous automobile company Telco (now Tata Motors). It stated that the company required young, bright engineers, hardworking and with an excellent academic background, etc.

At the bottom was a small line: "Lady candidates need not apply."

I read it and was very upset. For the first time in my life I was up
against gender discrimination.

Though I was not keen on taking up the job, I saw it as a challenge. I had done extremely well in academics, better than most of my male peers. Little did I know then that in real life academic excellence is not enough to be successful.

After reading the notice I went fuming to my room. I decided to inform the topmost person in Telco's management about the injustice the company was perpetrating. I got a postcard and started to write, but there was a problem: I did not know who headed Telco.

I thought it must be one of the Tatas. I knew JRD Tata was the head of the Tata Group; I had seen his pictures in newspapers (actually, Sumant Moolgaokar was the company's chairman then). I took the card, addressed it to JRD and started writing. To this day I remember clearly what I wrote.

"The great Tatas have always been pioneers. They are the people who started the basic infrastructure industries in India, such as iron and steel, chemicals, textiles and locomotives. They have cared for higher education in India since 1900 and they were responsible for the establishment of the Indian Institute of Science. Fortunately, I study there. But I am surprised how a company such as Telco is discriminating on the basis of gender."

I posted the letter and forgot about it. Less than 10 days later, I received a telegram stating that I had to appear for an interview at Telco's Pune facility at the company's expense. I was taken aback by the telegram. My hostel mate told me I should use the opportunity to go to Pune free of cost and buy them the famous Pune saris for cheap! I collected Rs 30 each from everyone who wanted a sari. When I look back, I feel like
laughing at the reasons for my going, but back then they seemed good enough to make the trip.

It was my first visit to Pune and I immediately fell in love with the city. To this day it remains dear to me. I feel as much at home in Pune as I do in Hubli, my hometown. The place changed my life in so many ways. As directed, I went to Telco's Pimpri office for the interview.

There were six people on the panel and I realised then that this was serious business.

"This is the girl who wrote to JRD," I heard somebody whisper as soon as I entered the room. By then I knew for sure that I would not get the job. The realisation abolished all fear from my mind, so I was rather cool while the interview was being conducted.

Even before the interview started, I reckoned the panel was biased, so I told them, rather impolitely, "I hope this is only a technical interview."

They were taken aback by my rudeness, and even today I am ashamed about my attitude. The panel asked me technical questions and I answered all of them.

Then an elderly gentleman with an affectionate voice told me, "Do you know why we said lady candidates need not apply? The reason is that we have never employed any ladies on the shop floor. This is not a co-ed college; this is a factory. When it comes to academics, you are a first ranker throughout. We appreciate that, but people like you should work in research laboratories."

I was a young girl from small-town Hubli. My world had been a limited place.

I did not know the ways of large corporate houses and their difficulties, so I answered, "But you must start somewhere, otherwise no woman will ever be able to work in your factories."

Finally, after a long interview, I was told I had been successful. So this was what the future had in store for me. Never had I thought I would take up a job in Pune. I met a shy young man from Karnataka there, we became good friends and we got married.

It was only after joining Telco that I realized who JRD was: the uncrowned king of Indian industry. Now I was scared, but I did not get to meet him till I was transferred to Bombay. One day I had to show some reports to Mr Moolgaokar, our chairman, who we all knew as SM. I was in his office on the first floor of Bombay House (the Tata headquarters) when, suddenly JRD walked in. That was the first time I saw "appro JRD". Appro means "our" in Gujarati. This was the affectionate term by which people at Bombay House called him.

I was feeling very nervous, remembering my postcard episode. SM introduced me nicely, "Jeh (that's what his close associates called him), this young woman is an engineer and that too a postgraduate.
She is the first woman to work on the Telco shop floor." JRD looked at me. I was praying he would not ask me any questions about my interview (or the postcard that preceded it).

Thankfully, he didn't. Instead, he remarked. "It is nice that girls are getting into engineering in our country. By the way, what is your name?"

"When I joined Telco I was Sudha Kulkarni, Sir," I replied. "Now I am Sudha Murthy." He smiled and kindly smile and started a discussion with SM. As for me, I almost ran out of the room.

After that I used to see JRD on and off. He was the Tata Group chairman and I was merely an engineer. There was nothing that we had in common. I was in awe of him.

One day I was waiting for Murthy, my husband, to pick me up after office hours. To my surprise I saw JRD standing next to me. I did not know how to react. Yet again I started worrying about that postcard. Looking back, I realise JRD had forgotten about it. It must have been a small incident for him, but not so for me.

"Young lady, why are you here?" he asked. "Office time is over." I said,
"Sir, I'm waiting for my husband to come and pick me up." JRD said, "It is getting dark and there's no one in the corridor.

I'll wait with you till your husband comes."

I was quite used to waiting for Murthy, but having JRD waiting alongside made me extremely uncomfortable.

I was nervous. Out of the corner of my eye I looked at him. He wore a simple white pant and shirt. He was old, yet his face was glowing. There wasn't any air of superiority about him. I was thinking, "Look at this person. He is a chairman, a well-respected man in our country and he is waiting for the sake of an ordinary employee."

Then I saw Murthy and I rushed out. JRD called and said, "Young lady, tell your husband never to make his wife wait again." In 1982 I had to resign from my job at Telco. I was reluctant to go, but I really did not have a choice. I was coming down the steps of Bombay House after wrapping up my final settlement when I saw JRD coming up. He was absorbed in thought. I wanted to say goodbye to him, so I stopped. He saw me and paused.

Gently, he said, "So what are you doing, Mrs Kulkarni?" (That was the way he always addressed me.) "Sir, I am leaving Telco."

"Where are you going?" he asked. "Pune, Sir. My husband is starting a company called Infosys and I'm shifting to Pune."

"Oh! And what will you do when you are successful."
"Sir, I don't know whether we will be successful." "Never start with diffidence," he advised me. "Always start with confidence. When you are successful you must give back to society. Society gives us so much; we must reciprocate. I wish you all the best."

Then JRD continued walking up the stairs. I stood there for what seemed like a millennium. That was the last time I saw him alive. Many years later I met Ratan Tata in the same Bombay House, occupying the chair JRD once did. I told him of my many sweet memories of working with Telco. Later, he wrote to me, "It was nice hearing about Jeh from you. The sad part is that he's not alive to see you today."

I consider JRD a great man because, despite being an extremely busy person, he valued one postcard written by a young girl seeking justice. He must have received thousands of letters everyday. He could have thrown mine away, but he didn't do that. He respected the intentions of that unknown girl, who had neither influence nor money, and gave her an opportunity in his company. He did not merely give her a job; he changed her life and
mindset forever.

Close to 50 per cent of the students in today's engineering colleges are girls. And there are women on the shop floor in many industry segments. I see these changes and I think of JRD. If at all time stops and asks me what I want from life, I would say I wish JRD were alive today to see how the company we started has grown. He would have enjoyed it wholeheartedly.

My love and respect for the House of Tata remains undiminished by the passage of time. I always looked up to JRD. I saw him as a role model for his simplicity, his generosity, his kindness and the care he took of his employees. Those blue eyes always reminded me of the sky; they had the same vastness and magnificence.


(Sudha Murthy is a widely published writer and chairperson of the Infosys Foundation involved in a number of social development initiatives. Infosys chairman Narayana Murthy is her husband.)


Article sourced from: Lasting Legacies (Tata Review- Special Commemorative Issue 2004), brought out by the house of Tatas to commemorate the 100th birth anniversary of JRD Tata on July 29, 2004

Wednesday, August 30, 2006

Ode to CEO, Deccan Airways

One great swashbuckling karate kick in the face of the company "dubba peetofying about being the second most famous airline in India" in so few years!!!
http://smilesnsmiles.blogspot.com/2006/08/to-ceo-air-deccan.html#comments

This one is a must read though I apologize to the author to have put this link on my page without her permission. I am sure that she will not be averse to any miniscule publicity that this post might get for her blog.

Monday, August 28, 2006

Phone calls

So many new things hapenning in life that I almost forgot to put this in...but anger and frustration apart, blogs should be updated with (in my case) anything that my dimaad thinks about...

What do you do when you are called out of your office by a very good friend of yours and then just when you two start talking, this friend gets a phone call? Nothing...right? You just stand their and wait for him to end it as soon as he can and restart his talk with you...right?

This is just what I did today...waited and waited and waited and finally found that I had been doing that wait for more than 15 minutes (let me assure you if you do not already know that these 15 minutes are longer than most years that you have lived on this planet). All that I do is grin at anything which sounds remotely familier even though I have no clue about the person at the other end of the line who is taking the time which was supposed to be yours!

Finally decided that I had enough and since nothing else seemed good to be done, I started walking away slowly only to find this friend of mine following me....OK...so now what? Start walking with him!!...And this guy did not stop talking on the phone...finally I just took off leaving him to do his chatting making sure that next time something like this happens...I will not do anything.

What I am going to do now is that I am going to send the link of this post to this good friend of mine ;-)

Chill guys!!!
Nishant

Thursday, July 27, 2006

Mast zindagi hai...meri nahi...unn logo ki jo normal times par kaam karte hai. I came to office at 9 in morning yesterday and felt so bad about having to come at odd times to work. If only I could work at the same time as every single normal person....guess that is not going to be the case for some time to come. Still felt such a different feeling. Now I will definitely understand the improtance and the special feeling of working at these times more than any person who has been waking up at 7 just to be in office on time. My roomie shouts and screams about having to go early in the morning....ab ussko kaun samjhaye ki kaash main bhi aisa kar sakta... :-(

Hope I will do the same one day........one day

Tuesday, July 25, 2006

dhoom dhadakka

could not thnk of any better heading for this post. after all this is what is going on in my head currently...24X7....day in and day out. Have so many things to think about. Earlier it was the daily targets that I was thinking about...now since I have taken myself away from them, it has become the "other" things (best left unsaid till a better time since I dont know who all must be reading these posts)

I never thought that my head could ache so much just because of some stupid things going on inside. actually cant exactly call them stupid since they have more to do with the thing called my career than anything else has ever been...and that brings me to the reason why i have been blabbering here for so long.

I was thinking about all the things that we have done since we were born that we have been told or we have thought "are the last things that we need to work hard on to become something"!!! I remember the first time that i was told this was in class 8th. My mom went after me saying that if i work hard, i will get enough grades to see me through the rest of my life...and I BELIEVED HER!!! Then class tenth boards, class twelth boards, medical entrances, navy SSB, air force SSB, medical entrances again, all enggineering years, MBA entrances....and then I went away to XIMB hostel and no one to say anything and hence i started the completely useless work of blogging...but now this thing comes up and again i start thinking...had all those things really been so important? if i had secured a li'l bit less marks in any of them, would I have been worse off...or vice versa...had I been better off had i got something better in any of them? guess i will never know since i did not get anything less or more.

Strange world...we work so hard to get what we get and then dont have a clue what would have hapenned had we worked less hard....or we do not work and get what we get and again have no clue what we would have got had we worked harder...!!! Simply...as I said initially...my brain is going crazy and making a sound....DHOOM DHADAKKA

Saturday, July 15, 2006

My GOD...WHAT IS WITH ME?

yesterday a gr8 frnd of mine writes a testimonial for me on orkut saying that he loves to read my blog....opened my eyes...i forget to write stuff on it and thr is at least someone here who likes to read it!

I decided that i have to do something for this lone customer that my blog has...i am not going to let him down and am going to write with new vigor and josh (is thr any diff between the two words? i dont know)

anyways...i decided that i will write about orkut today. seriously an amazing creation of human brain. i met up with a loooot of old long lost frnds thru this thing.....

as i said...getting so late now. have to log out but i dont want to lose this nice habit of blogging....used to take so much tension away from me....actually feeling better already

Monday, May 29, 2006

Seems like my posts at this blog are decreasing by the day. :-( life is taking a toll on me....kya karu

on a serious note...i have nothing worthwhile to contribute to humanity and hence i feel that the only reason why i m writing this seems to be my all encompassing statement that i m perfectly useless to any process that i going on on this planet...hence possibly i m the best person to be sent to the moon whenever the next trip goes there...maybe i will do something usefull thr

Friday, May 12, 2006

blore is good....as far as the weather is concerned at least. my job is stressfull...as far as i am concerned at least. my bike is flying...as far as the roads are concerned at least. but things are very very dull PERIOD

update on my side...working in office at least between 4 to 1 and stay back and come early since nothing to do at home. play snooker, almost started to go to the gym (this i do daily ;-))...

and a news flash...first couple from my XIMB batch to get married- Sujesh and Sudeshna..sure hope that the message on yahoogroups is from Sujesh and sure hope that they find the true everlasting love for each other in this relationship not just in this life but all the future ones to come.

now i get back to my work!

Tuesday, April 11, 2006

Bangalore.....

Here I am...This is me...i guess i had no clue as to what i will be....

in bangalore for arnd 10 days now i feel as if i have been thru so many things. Events are the ones which drive ur life and not time. this is what i get to understand now. same 10 days without any events would have been just a blip on my life's radar. these 10 days in a completely new place, among completely new ppl, being (literally) thrown out of a guest house and then going on to another, joining a company which is changing by the day, going on a leasurely (though official) tour to Bandipur Wildlife santuary (earlier more famous for Veerappan but now the elephants and tigers and leopards seem to have taken the place)...all these things do seem to change things.

Then getting to do things which i had never thought will be something i will be interested in (thinking of finance as i was during most of my mba...though later turned to sales) now this feels like a completely new challenge that i have to take and succeed at.

we have also taken a house (me and bisu) which is more of a duplex and ppl are actually shocked at how we could get it at such low costs. and now i am planning to take a bike very SOON...cant go back to my place at 1AM or later without the auto walla taking 2-3 times the actual money.

lots of crap have i said today...take care all the vella junta reading this crap column

Thursday, March 30, 2006

Anuj and Soumya.....and Bangalore tomorrow

yesterday i had two great frnds getting married. Anuj and Soumya had never talked during all the years in school together. and finally decided during a small meeting in a small meet in another frnd's place that they were made for each other. surely marriages are made heaven. as anuj was saying sitting on the dias yesterday waiting for soumya, "I had never thought that i will be marrying a girl from AFBBS!!". Sure anuj...neither did i thnk about you that way.

All the best to a great couple and may your love blossom as it has till now. u 2 make me feel like getting married fast now ;)

though i wil have to convince someone else for that and she is not in any mood right now...i know that :D

i am leaving for bangalore tomorrow. lets see what happens in this new place. Till date i have learnt something worthwhile in all the new cities that i have been to. Hope blore is only different that it teaches me a LOT of things and not just afew.

Till next time (which i dont know when will happen)

Sunday, March 26, 2006

frm bbsr to bglr

Things change, locations change. But such changes do not happen so often. It seems just yesterday that i was leaving home to joing XIMB in Bhubaneswar thinking of another new city that i will get to explore and another new life that i wil be able to live. and now after having gone thru bbsr, ctk, puri and a host of other places..not to mention kolkata in my summers, i am now going to leave delhi in 3 days time for going to bangalore...another new city to explore and another new life to live.

What is that place like? their seems to be at least one person from each indian family who is currently working in bangalore. wherever i have gone in these past weeks..after my convo which itself was such a big event in my life that the excitement kept me away from my blog for all these days...there has been someone who is "currently in bangalore" or has "just gone to bangalore" or is "just shifting to bangalore". How much place does that city have???? i wonder!!!

Friday, March 24, 2006

My XIMB...i do miss it a lot

This was something which was always going to happen. We always knew that we will have to leave XIMB...for good. Then why is it that after leaving campus last week, after coming home to the same 24hrs net connection, after getting all the home made food that i was longing for all this while, after knowing that i will soon be one of those ppl in the world whose first salary will be in the top income tax bracket, after knowing that a completely new and hopefully as exciting life awaits me in Bangalore, I still feel as if i have lost a huge and important part of myself by coming out of XIMB?

The Ashoka trees lining the roads, the professors whose classes were better for catching up on our sleep, the rooms where we spent most of the time even if it was to chat with the guy living in the room next to ours, the mess which was more famous for the things it did not serve rather than the ones it did, the stairs in front of the mess and the culverts where we added all those spices to the already flavored gossip that we heard, the flowers that studded the campus as the placement season neared bearing a reminder to the days to follow the placements, the payiks and the mess wallas sitting thr always looking at u as a person who has come for a short time and in this time, they try to become ur family...in this time u become thr family.

Have a great time my XIMB....and all the ppl who come in and go out of those gates which changed so many things...inside us and outside us.

Wednesday, March 08, 2006

Left XIMB for good

working on my comp from home seems to be such strange occurance for me right now. no ppl coming over to disturb me and no pops to reply to. this life is going to be difficult to adjust to...sply since this net previlidge may not stay for long as have to join itc in less than one week now. things are actually getting more senti with meetings with old frnds (school and college) and this creates a greater feeling of being away from ppl u love....sply after leaving them. man was created by god and by putting these emotions into man, god gave him a huge responsibility. now i m starting to understand it. but soon ximb will also become a memory and a beautiful incident in my life which will be thr to remember and cherish and the feeling of having to leave it will go away...after all this is part and parcel of everyone's life...ain't it?

Monday, February 27, 2006

And on...and on...

My neighbour left today...now i feel that i never talked to nitin (gambhir) as i shld have...no heart to heart talks...nothing. feels as if we missed out on knowing each other even more during our 1.5 years of night outs together, 1.5 years of staying in adjacent rooms, 1.5 years of listening to each other...but now he is gone...and i am going today. hope i meet him again and am able to tell him this.

Mickey also left today. this guy has been such great help...any problem and inevitably his name will be first in my mind as in most of the other ppls minds. i just feel that i get more time with these ppl in the future...and they stay happy wherever they are.

miss u guys...b-top looks and feels strange without u and without the usual shouting and banter

Saturday, February 25, 2006

And the days go by....

These last few days have gone in nothing but parties...from junis to seniors or vice versa...from one individual to the other...or in any other form or fashion (including one between me and manu ;-)) but the days still go by...thinking about what next is going to come in our lives. it seems to be just yesterday when i was writing a blog post wishing my seniors best wishes in thr lives...now i m in thr position and the same seniors are telling us that they will be thr to help us and our junis are wishing us in the same way as we were...

i leave campus day after tomorrow...to surely come back once to attend the convocation baraat that tells the world that we are corporates now. i dont know wether we are actually or not...seems like MBA shld be not 2 but 3 years long. since we were told in the beginning that we will unlearn what we have learnt till then and then relearn...i guess what we have done in 2 years has been all unlearning...so we shld need at least one year to do the other part i.e. relearn. Plz make it 3 years.

dunno what i m talking about.. i dont say that my posts have some sort of a format in terms of a head, body and ending but today..i know that this one does not...so anyone who has cared to drop by and actually read this post till this time..plz excuse my banter

all the best everyone

Thursday, February 23, 2006

YOU CAN TAKE AN XIMBIAN OUT OF XIMB BUT YOU CAN NEVER TAKE XIMB OUT OF AN XIMBIAN.

Truth and now i understand why.

http://maloyvilla.blogspot.com/2006/02/last-day-at-ximb.html

this one says most of the things that i would want to myself.

Everything is nothing

These words seem to have come from the mouth of some great thinker in a very high class gathering. If i say that they came from a waiter in Chilka Dhaba...a small highway dhaba near the Chilka lake, it will seem like a very strange thing. Actually the reference in this case was to a query about any cold drinks which they may have and his reply was "Everything is nothing" meaning that all the drinks that we asked for, none of them was their. strange eh? stranger things happen.

The above incident occurred on our night tryst with Oliver Ridley Turtules which was arranged by Prakriti the nature club of XIMB for us a couple of days back. These turtles come on the coast in these 4-5 days at a place near the Chilka lake to lay their eggs...and they come in thousands. A nice adventure and some good company was what made the trip a really memorable one. Entire B-top along with Meera and Manu and Satyen were in one car and we had some great fun inside as well as on the beach. Apart from the turtles which surely were scared seeing so many ppl thr, the beach during night with the waves shining and the foam glimmering made for a spectacular view. The stars also seem to have a way with expression specially for ppl who come from the city. u might just be stunned into silence if u see a night sky in the wild for the first time. the sheer quantity of the stars is enuf to make one think about his place in this universe again. The eggs of the turtles which our guide quitely dug out and kept in my hands felt and looked like TT balls. The guide told us that we could keep them in formalin and they will hatch. none of us was interested in that kind of a pet so we gave the eggs back to him and he promptly slid them into his bag....most probably to make an aumlette in the morning.

Some great experiences i have had in these last few days of my stay in ximb...sure hope that these continue forever.

Wednesday, February 22, 2006

It feels so good to talk about having been placed and going to start earning and all the different things that come along with that. what we forget or feel like overlooking are all the things that we are going to miss after we go out of ximb. I had never been in a hostel except in the navy and surely this experience has been absolutely amazing. No words are sufficient to describe the amount of learning that i have gained and the change that has come in me that i myself has felt in these 1.5 years. (even my typing speed has increased manifold)...

After yesterday's party (I feel like me and the other 4 Bad Boyz troupe have become an item performers...when nothing else is thr then send us in on the stage.) it seems that the time has reaally come in now. I hope that everyone in this place gets what they want and get it fast so that they get enuf time to enjoy it as well.

And by the way...plz my acting yesterday left a lot to be desired and i m thankful for that since the role that i got did not exactly suite me ;-)

Ode to XIMB Batch of 2006

Remembering my class mates after few years
My eyes were filled with tears
Everyone now is busy a lot,
No one escaoed destiny's plot

Project reviews to campus interviews
Nicknames to last bench games
Cultural rehearsals to love proposals
Short term crushes to class room blushes

Everything is fresh in our mind
Wish life could just rewind
Let's laugh play and rejoice
Once again become college guys

Chatting and laughing. we all were in elation
Till the painful moment of seperation
When it was time to part
We returned with a heavy heart

Today life is full of commitments
And too many worries
But those cherished moments
Will live forever in our memories!!

Monday, February 20, 2006

Maxinations 2006

Well!!! words cannot express the feelings that went through me and everyone else in XIM in these last few days that we have here. Maxinations just came to end with a surprise win for us which has left not only the rest of people but also our own block stunned. great team effort along with almost everything clicking for us in the end was what took the game towards our side. From the morning (coming second in quiz when nothing was expected) then following that up with some great presentation skills shown by pankaj and nitin in the brand presentation (we came second in that in the end) then coming second in Sargam as well (I was with mickey in that event :-D...no one in XIMB knew that any of us could sing...i still uphold that trophy :-D) and then to top it all, first in Block Rock!!! and this time our confidence card on the event gave us a huge lead. now i can again say that i was part of the 5 guys in the choreography...again a surprise for not only XIM but for me as well!!!

Overall...personally for me, a very satisfying end to a great 3 days...sply since we were so close to winning last year as well. Here is the win to the entire B Block as well as to the seniors who always wanted to but could never get the trophy. Great play by everyone else as well.

Friday, February 17, 2006

BAD BOYS ARE HERE!!!

Seems like a looong time since i last wrote something on my blog. My "frnd in times of boredom" whom i totally "forgot" during other times...guess that is the reason i put this post now. days seem to have gotten shorter for me for some days. The classes in KIIT seem to have not only got a lot of experience for me but also this great feeling that i could be the result because of which several 100 students get some jobs in the next few months. the students thr seem to be somewhat like in XIMB. A mixture of great and not so great ppl who together make a campus such a beautiful place. I really feel a lot for some guys with just about great skills in engineering but almost no way that i could make them speak. just hope that the companies that come are able to understand this and likewise recruit. i just hope that they all get placed and do not forget to tell me about it. a silent best wish for them all.

Today we start off with our quest for the Maxinations trophy. Something which we Almost won last year but could not because of no reason. The tempo is great and reminds me of the last year when we were all really charged up with that fire in our belly and i am sure we can do an encore this time as well. ALL THE BEST B BLOCK....After all...B A D B O Y S Are Here!!!

Thursday, February 09, 2006

Great time i m having

Guess losing friends and getting new friends is a part and parcel of life. but all these things apart, last few days have been really great. First was the trip which i talked about to puri...not exactly puri but to beautiful and empty beaches near puri. The views were spectacular and we really enjoyed a full day of masti. Details about that in the next post since right now i am a bit busy (yep...in these times of excess time ;-)) after all i have a quiz to give and then go on to KIIT for the classes that i m taking thr. It really feels great knowing that u have 2 full hours to urself to keep talking and the poor souls in front of u have no other option to listen to u.

Monday, February 06, 2006

Going to Puri

nice times to get bored in :)...

going to puri to spend a day on the beach with friends...njoy everyone

Saturday, February 04, 2006

Khandagiri and Bhittarkanika...my answer

I got a complaint today on my google talk. unfortunately I was not in my room at that time. The problem with this friend was that even though my status message was that i was "extremely bored" I had not bothered to write anything on my blog for a couple of days now. Sorry bhai but this was more because i forgot to change my GT status message :-) These 2 days have been busy like any other nice day should be and the title of this post should tell you just why!!

Yesterday, I went to andhra bank to do a small 2 min work for my NEM project. The fellow told me to come after one hour since he was "busy". I had no clue what to do so went over to khandagiri which was close by and spent an hour in that place eating chanas at the top of a mountain which also had a jain temple and a shiv temple. An hour was spent their and then when i reached back, i spent another 1.5 hours sitting in front of that idiot of an officer just staring at his face. Eventually he simply told me that he did not have the two minutes to spare :-( and could not even give an appointment for the next day. (actually that was good since i had more important stuff to do today :-D)

Today was our trip to bhittarkanika (yep again for me) but this was different and enjoyable in a different way. While the first trip was 4 guys on an adventure with no plans made beforehand, this one had been meticuously planned out by sujesh and consisted of 16 ppl (after richa opted out). 2 Qualis and a huge boat later not to mention the treck and the leg breaking journey in the cars, i have reached the following conclusions:
1. It really matters wether u have been to a place before or not. It could be as enjoyable if not more if u have a different group and/or a different reason for going. I had both, my reason being to keep a better lookout for snakes (i managed to get a glimpse of one in the wild) and to just chill out which i did.

2. Do NOT eat in the new Reliance A1 dhabas...the food is bad and cold and basically more of glamor in the place than anything else (after all how many dhabas have waiters who have left places like Pal Heights to serve u food on a highway!!!) Just does not give the dhaba feeling after the food has come in front of you.

3. Enjoy life!!! :-)

So...really sorry my frnd for not having changed my status message, i have done that now...though it seems that from tomorrow, it is going to be the same old story again...

Tuesday, January 31, 2006

orkut rules

Seems strange to thing that with nothing else to do, even then i did not write anything on my blog yesterday. The reason is stranger...with nothing to do, there is nothing to think and hence nothing to write about....simple eh!

So how am i passing my free time nowadays one may think. Till yesterday it was through one of the most ridiculous things that one could think of. I was using the famed orkut.com to find long lost friends and getting in touch with them. Believe it or not...i actually found a friend i had lost contact with after class X!!! And small as this world is, this guy is in bangalore...where i am destined to be in months time. The two of us do share a lot of memories together and i hope that shankar was as happy to see my mail as i was after seeing his.

Enjoy life ppl

Sunday, January 29, 2006

So much to talk about

Thr are days as i must have mentioned before when u have so much to talk about that u feel that you need more than a blog and more than afew minutes to write about them. Yesterday was one such day. The only reason why i did not put anything yesterday itself was that at 5 in the morning, after dancing for 5 whole hours and then taking a guy back to his room after he had had more than his usual quota of drinks, i had no energy left to even think about logging in and writing something.

A very dear friend of mine took me to a temple yesterday. No big deal...I am one of those ppl who go to temples on a regular basis. Now this temple i went to was really located in such a small corner of the city that we actually wondered who had discovered that such a temple even existed. And then it was really small. Why this friend took me was because she had kept a small mannat and on its finishing she wanted to come and take 108 rounds of the idol. Why u may ask. This will happen in case u r not familier with the way indian society is run. Total faith in God and all his doings and undoings is such that even things which are explained by normal contemorary science are sometimes attributed to Him. But we are MBA's (me and my friend), so why do we believe in all this and actually feel that in case we ask him for something, he is the one who is going to give it to us? Not that i am in any way lowering his place or trying to dispute that he does not exist or even trying to lay a claim about his presence. This is supposed to be a very median statement not meant to mean or convey anything. I just felt sitting their and waiting for her to finish her rounds, as to why this was happening. Is it because we are not confident of what we can achieve on our own? Or is it because we need someone to put all our mistakes on? Or probably to have someone with us...because man is a social animal and all our lonely ordeals on this planet make us want to have someone around...so why not have God who will be present everywhere and we can talk to him and walk with him and listen to him at any time that we feel lost in this big bad world?

If that is the case then as soon as the above things are taken care of, will we lose our faith in the existence and hand of god?

I dunno...all that i know is that if their is God, then i would prefer to have him on my side...

Friday, January 27, 2006

For the Blogophobics

Since last year when i started this blog, i have had numerous ppl coming over and saying how much time i am wasting on this "crap" and "@#@%&#" and some decent words as well. Now i give one small thing that hapenned yeserday night that was actually an example of how USEFUL a blog can be. Rabi came over to my room asking me about Bhittarkanika, how to get thr, what to do thr and all similar details. All that I had to do was open my blog and let him read my post about Bhittarkanika. Howzzat!!!

So now for all the blogophobics, blog haters and the similar junta....herez a reason to write blogs. You dont have to remember everything that happens in your small or big world...depending on how you see it.

So pick up those idle fingers and type away...

Wednesday, January 25, 2006

These medicines do have a way of thr own. I got this really bitter cough syrup from a doctor and was told specially that it will make me go to sleep and hence i shld not be driving or doing any similar risky work after having it. Within a week, i finished an entire bottle but not once did i feel that my sleep was because of the medicine. absolutely no affect...either on my sleep or on my cough.

Next bottle that i get is another medicine which is supposed to be in a "new tingle flavour"...whatever that means...and this does not come with any soporific warnings. i took one spoon of this and i got to know the "tingle" flavor...and after 15 min...i had forgotten everything and was in a deep slumber on my bed. Thnk god that i was in my room nahi to pata nahi kaha so raha hota raat bhar ;-)

these medicines and there ways!!!

Tuesday, January 24, 2006

cough cough cough cough cough cough cough cough cough cough cough cough cough cough cough cough ...............

that is all that is coming out of me right now...so that is all that i can think of putting on my blog right now...

hope i m the only one suffering from this illness on the planet right now

take care everyone

Sunday, January 22, 2006

my plans

back from wasting some of my quality time at home, i have a very daunting task ahead of me. I have to decide where to spend the rest of my days that lie in front of me before my company decides to have the guts to start giving me money (for what, i still dont understand). i have thought of afew things which i am not sure about that will work. but still my mind is so so so confused that i really cant understand what to do. i have put enuf e-books on my comp to last me a lifetime if i want to, enuf movies on cd's to while away another lifetime, enuf games to waste another generations precious time....but what the hell am i going to do?????

anyone having any suggestions or recommendations...plz come ahead and put them up for me. I will be really grateful

Monday, January 09, 2006

going home

seems like such a long time that 0.2 celsius temperature in delhi is also not at all putting ice on my mood of going back home. tonight, i push off for a nice long week at home which as it happens will be my longest stay at home since i joined ximb.

hope the dilli ki sardi is able to create a cool atmosphere but not put ice on any of my plans...

enjoy everyone

Sunday, January 08, 2006

Xuberance 2006..grand closure

I have been itching to write this post for a long long time. Actually since last year when sitting at the control desk, I saw the elation on the faces of my seniors when signing out...each with a job and each happy not just for themselves but for their friends of 2 years who are going to be their for them for the rest of their lives. Tomorrow is that day for us. We all sign out starting 10:30AM. But I saw that joy on my batchmates faces today itself.

As soon as word came out that the last of us had been placed...it was simply a "cycle stand affect" that took place...with an uproar going up all over the campus (right upto the faculty quarters waking them up as well). There was no stopping any of us, shouting and shouting and jumping and jumping and laughing and laughing away to the brink of madness. The elation and joy and ecstacy knew no bounds.

It is but difficult to put into words, and even more difficult to put into writing (since no one can actually see the emotions that arise on my face while writing this post) the kind of feeling that is going on. We were all awaiting the last result with bated breath counting down the number of people left to be placed. A real painful thing specially for those who were part of that group. And then....it goes down in history as the first truly 100% placement for XIMB on day 1...it goes into history as the best placement for XIMB in its history...it goes into history as Xuberance 2006.

With these emotions I want to draw this post to a close humbly wishing all my batchmates best wishes for a wonderful and successfull career and life full of joy and happiness and satisfaction with all achieved and desire to achieve all that is yet to be attained.

Friday, January 06, 2006

These last few weeks...

Long have been these weeks. No sense of what is going on....first the GD's were not getting cleared. Then suddenly there seems to have been some major upturn and I started clearing them...all of them!!! On last count..I had cleared 7 of them on the trot. Then I came across another hindrance...interviews. I had to somehow find out what the hell did each company want...."profile matching" is what the HR ppl like to call it. Then came 4th of Jan...the day when I had given XAT 2 years back and the day when I had got my summers one year back...this time it was my turn to get a job!!!
HDFC offerred me my first job! I was stunned...because the way I had performed in the interview was absolutely pathetic. Giving stupid answers to stupid questions
e.g.
Q: What are u looking for in HDFC?
Ans: Treasury
Q: Why?
Ans: Because everyone who has done finance wants treasury!
Q: But dont u think u will be more suitable for retail marketing?
Ans: May be...actually that is the reason why I took SDM and B2B and SM as papers!

And I was selected....GOD knows what they were looking for.

Anyways..that scared me..because of a simple reason that I have a strange aversion to banks. They simply dont impress me. So next day..with renewed vigour, I sat for ITC Infotech. GD cleared...interview..I gave but i did not know what impression i made. Suddenly I came to know that i had been cleared for a second round of interview and i was shocked. that also went coolly and i was waiting for the result. bated breath and almost senseless. What came was even a bigger shock than what had been hapenning in the last few days. I was offerred a LATERAL OFFER!!!!!

Some company had actually recognized my Navy experience as lateral and had decided to offer me a job then!!!

Things have taken such a lovely turn...

WHEW!!!...these last few weeks are coming to an end now!!!

Sunday, January 01, 2006

This is just a continuation from a reply on a very dear friends blog (http://xcellence.blogspot.com )

This is regarding success and failure that people look at. Ppl like to go to bookstalls and read books about "1001 ways to succeed" but never think about failure. Something similar to what we learnt in our PROF class. Why do we forget that behind every Armani suite, their are a 100 torn shirts. This is a very known human tendency that success gets on the brain much faster than failure. You will hardly find a person who has had a success without failure to even think about people who have failed more often (a.k.a. my frnds in XIMB) whilst people who succeed after having failed more than their due share of times find success to be sweeter (a.k.a. some other of my friends in XIMB). And then (as my blogger friend puts it) people go to successful people to ask how to succeed not understanding that to be successful, it is more important to understand failure than it is to understand success.

This diatribe of sorts may be taken by some as my own wanteness for recognition (u know....one of the people who continue to fail despite all the "strategies" that we adopt) but it surely is a truth in life.

Oh...by the way...A VERY HAPPY NEW YEAR to everyone who bothers to drop by and read these small ejaculations from my heart